举得起放得下的叫举重，
举得起放不下的叫负重。
可惜，大多数人的爱情，都是负重的。
If you can hold something up and put it down, it is called weight-
lifting; if you can hold something up but can never put it down,it's
called burden-bearing. Pitifully, most of people are bearing heavy
burdens when they are in love.